As We Proceed

While I was reading the assigned chapter this week, it struck me as all too familiar. Like Kim, I, too, have had to contend with jealousy, lack of understanding and no support from one of my loved ones while pursuing my degree. At the time, it was easier to curl up and have a pity party than to block out negativity. I nursed my wounds by crying and complaining to anyone who would listen. I learned the hard way that this behavior is detrimental to my mind and spirit. The example shown in the textbook was so sad. I would want to ask Kim why she would risk her academic success on one moment of fun. In that split decision she destroyed her grade point average. Keeping priorities lined up is so important. As a student, you can have the best intentions to finish your assignments on time but once your priorities shift to a different angle, it is hard to keep up and honor your obligations. One article in the OnCourse textbook discusses responsibility and choice. The illustration showed how we can fall into either one of two categories: victim mindset or creator mindset. It is safe to say that most of us have experienced both types of thinking. Acknowledging our mistakes and taking responsibility is a sensible decision. As a mother, I stress honesty, hard work and making wise decisions to my children. As a teacher, I believe it is important to discuss this topic with my students. This subject is ideal to use as an icebreaker with students to see what they think about wise decisions vs. foolish ones.